thanks sandi - he knows and he uses it. I see it, but I was always to afraid to do anything about it. At this point, I just can't take it anymore. it has gotten progressivly worse over the last couple months. I messed up, we both have. I don't hold him asking me for a D over his head. I'm done hearing about it over and over.
I know as i stand up to him, it may get worse (or better, who knows) but at least I'm taking care of me. Our M is not going to work if i feel like crap all the time and right now that's about how it is. If i'm doing my part then only one of us is actively trying to destroy the M. that's better than it is now with both of us causing damage.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
