Sandi - I have just read through this thread and the one you linked earlier, where you told your story. I used to post here years ago but stopped, and it's stories like yours that make me wish I had done a better job of sticking around these boards, because (gosh darn it!) it just makes me feel better knowing there are other women out there living in a similar situation.
You have made great progress, IMO, and you are an inspiration. I look forward to seeing how this all goes with your H, and how he responds (hopefully with positive changes). Kudos, too, to DomR - that sample letter you wrote brought tears to my eyes. It was fantastic. You are a good person to be so supportive and helpful.
