Thanks, Saffie, I appreciate it.

Yes, that's is precisely the point. I am starting to realize that there is really nothing more to be said by me at this point. It's in her court now, and I need to give her her space, and put my focus back on me. She keeps saying we need to communicate, but she's not really doing so herself. All my efforts to accommodate her have done, so far, is to keep me from moving forward.

I am just going to file this letter away and move on.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.