Don't know what I'm doing anymore - Help.

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We are pretty simple creatures in our basic needs. Once those are being met on a regular basis then we start to think about other things.

My W would ask me a lot "What are you thinking about?". The answer really was nothing, or sex. And it alternated between the two every few minutes.

We all do have other interests, but like dom said we're action oriented. I would rather not talk about doing something and then how I feel about doing it and then the possible outcomes of doing it... I would rather just do it...

I can't say as I speak for all men, but this is how I am. And from the other men that I know, it seems like we're not all that different.