This is just an observation but if you think you answered yourself in your first sentence then why bother putting your heart out there to be bruised again.
And when it comes to these pedestals just think hard. I had my H so high up on one. He said that it wasn't a compliment; it was an encumbrance. He enjoyed crumbling it.
Take care NoCodes.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
