That is a great quote and I will read it everyday. Today was, of course, another bad day. I am having dreams, now, about he and OW. I wake up crying. It hurts. I pretty much cried my whole way to work, but then cleaned myself up and am currently faking it. I get scared that I won't talk to him and we will just grow farther and farther apart. And, he will fall into that comfortable zone with OW and I'll just be, as he refers to me, his First wife. I sometimes feel like we are just playing games. He texted me last night around 5pm, asking something about the baby. I didn't text him back until almost 10pm. Then he just didn't respond. I guess I will just take it for what it is. I'm sure he was punishing me for not texting him back right away, but oh well. Does anyone know what the stats are on WAS's coming home. I'd love to know what percentage return.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him