When I was getting ready to file papers to terminate marriage #1, I intended to wait until after Christmas. When she told me to leave the house, four days after my father's death, I decided that I wasn't going to wait. My filing date was December 5. Ten years ago.
Of course, my kids' Christmas was going to suck either way, we were so ugly to each other by then, so YMMV.
By the way, what the heck is a "coil thread" and why would it hurt him during sex?
