Back at DB/new marriage new WAW

[dh4320]

So i just TM my W and asked her to call chrysler financial to get the payoff of the excursion. She replied asking for the phone #, i wanted to say look it up yourself but i got online and got it to her. How hard is it to look up a #?? I am having my assistant run an add for a full time nanny. I guess i need to replace what my stay at home W was suppose to do. I also think when she finds out it will be another sign that i am moving on without her, ok i had to pause in typing W just called she could have TM the info but she called instead, she sounded a little down i told her i would handle the payoff of the excursion she told me she got her nitro yesterday so i guess i was reading into too much. She sounded sick so i asked her why she hasnt gone to the Dr. She said she did not have her insurance card, i told her to make an appointment i would get her the info so she can get some treatment. I asked how the job hunting was going she said there are a lot of jobs out there for 7 dollars an hour, i said its better than nothing, no response. I asked her about the school, she asked if i was still going to pay for it? i said yes i told you i would pay for it. SHe responds with you said you would do a lot of things. I told her all this is happening so fast you need to understand i need time to process everything. She stated she wished it could move faster, i said im sure you do, she said she meant getting her own place. I did not say anything to that since i am not going to help her, dammit she just called again and said i forgot to tell you i have shoes for our D to wear in the photos. Well i am letting her come around a bit at least now she is calling. No R talks at all I asked her about counseling. She said our counselor referred someone closer to where she is staying about 30 minutes from me, she asked if i would still pay for it, again i told her i would. She is not angry on the phone so thats a big change i was kinda short on the phone, not too upbeat and not sad, stuck to the conversation at hand and thats all.....