That doesn't mean sex is going to go like clockwork, either. It means you guys have a lot of trial/error in front of you... things to try, things to toss out... and if you give yourselves a break, and say outloud to one another... "it's okay if this thing we are trying together utterly bombs..." you take the pressure off yourselves, and you become that much more willing to try and fail... and keep at it until you find things you DO like...
