WAW1978-Fresh Start

[waw1978]

I have a new complaint...why is it when people say they want complete honesty, and you tell them the truth they get put off?

Just curious. I went out on a couple of casual dates, snails pace, with a fellow and he stressed how important honesty & trust were (ex-wife was a cheater) but after a few dates flat out asked if I was ever going to get back together with my H. I gave him the flat out answer that I didn't know. I couldn't say for sure. Of couse when his next question was where do you see this going I should have run from the reastaurant like a bat ouf of hell, not casual dating questioning. I just said I was taking my life and relationships (if any) day by day. Not future talks or expectations as my relationship life is in flux. Not really sure its over with H, no papers filed yet but still separated and not working on it.

What the hell do you do? Some of us are floundering out here in the "quasi" dating world in some attempt to GAL and boost are PMA and feel wanted and get our spouses to see us being wanted to make them want us. Really quite interesting how it all comes full circle. Just my rant for the day. Haven't had one in a while but this just struck me as something everyone else may be feeling!