is he too young for MLC?

[Dom R]

Thanks Dom. i quite enjoy reading your responses. The only reason I would ask for another round is because he would always say to me that I wouldn't[....]It was often part of our fights that if i wasn't happy why not ask for more.

Hmm.. well, those two are very different things.
I think what he was saying, was "why dont you initiate more, if you want more sex".
However, please note, "initiate". which is quite different from "ask for more, after he is 'spent'"

In those kinds of situations... if you really want more "intercourse", specifically.. i would suggest just "playing" for a while.. seeing if there is a favourable reaction.. and then playing it by ear, in a non-pressure way.

Generally safer, though, is asking for non-intercourse attention. IF you make that a "safe" feeling for him, then you should practically always be able to get that from him, and it will make him feel good that he can make you happy. A win-win situation!

I did send him a little dirty email tonight. Said i was thinking ABOUT him. It was short and sweet. I thought maybe something in the email that was light and not about R or feelings would be a nice change.

As long as there is no OW, I'm happy to work on the bedroom stuff.

good for you