Here's an email I'm about to send to H: __________________________ We still need to do more talking. I think the decision you came to on Tuesday night was the sensible one and then you took fright and tried to retract. Of course it's frightening - I'm bloody terrified - but we can do this and hopefully both move on to happier lives. I'm perfectly happy to continue to belong to your extended family and for you to belong to mine - I just don't think we have any kind of a romantic relationship left between us and that is making us both truly miserable.
Lets not wreck Christmas, I'm sure we can both keep up reasonable appearances for the kids and your family until that's all over, and then just get on with working out the practical side.
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what do you all think?
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
