Long and bumpy road

[Startingover2]

No, I didn't respond after he asked what he can do to help me with stress. That pretty much did it for me.

Found out that his brother and wife are in town for the weekend. That usually means a party weekend. They like to drink and party so I am sure dh will be along for the ride and not really thinking about his consequences right now. When do the consequences hit? When does he realize that he is making the wrong choice?

I was thinking this morning that my hopeful stage is getting thin. I had the hope that by my telling dh he needed to get himself together or not be around that he would snap out of this.....instead its like he is saying "ok, bye".

I would love to do other things. Outside of my kids all of my friends are married and don't do much outside their families. Need to find something though.