entire family went to dinner last night. w is still mad at me for chewing her out. gave me a little dig at dinner table about it. got home , she said she was thinking about not renewing her gym membership. i said why, she said she was tired of me getting mad at her about being gone so much. she said that i wanted her home more, for me not for the kids. did not argue. she does not see that the kids need her at home. i also told her the reason i was so mad last friday night was a carryover from her not staying in town extra day to see granddaughter born. she was shocked i was mad at her for that. she said someone should have said something to her. she said it never crossed her mind.it is obvious she feels i am trying to control her behavior by calling her on the carpet once in awhile.i do not do it for me, i do it for the children. am i wrong to ask her to have a balance as far as being gone and being around for the kids? she is so oblivious at times.she said she checks with the kids to see if it allright if she is gone. of course the kids are not going to tell their mother it is not allright. comments
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023