Yes I know, its ok.. the argument got heated, and I actaully told him later its not what I want but we have to go forward with our relationship, not backwards. Yes we are all those things but like saffie said, we can be all things all the time, and that's when my H takes advantage. Ive been married a long time, and I also worked before I had children (for 11 years) So I know what its like on both ends of the spectrum.. only im home with kids and I run his business too.. so if you've ever owned your own business, you know that it is extremly stressful, and trying to do it with 2 boys around doesn't make it any easier. Until my H tries at least a little bit to understand that we will continue to have problems. but now that is out in the open and we are working on it. One of the things is hiring an accountant. But we won't be able to do that until spring.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
