Hi Disappoined - you sound good. I agree with Azhira, it never moves as quick as we'd like. It's as if time passes at a different rate for the LBS than it does for the WAS. Sigh
Xmas cards - I reckon sign from both of you. If H queries it make out it's no biggie, that you just signed from both of you automatically, didn't really think about it, then change the subject. if he wants to make a big deal out of it then it's him being petty and then you just say "sorry, didn't realise it would upset you". If you sign them from just you then people will suspect somethign is up and you may get akward questions ... I feel the less people know about an M crisis the better. I confided in good friends only, didn't want everyone to know.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.