Thanks Dom. i quite enjoy reading your responses. The only reason I would ask for another round is because he would always say to me that I wouldn't.This has been an on going problem for a very long time and before I would just leave it at once and go to sleep. It was often part of our fights that if i wasn't happy why not ask for more. I am trying to listen to what he has to say. But I will try other things that you have suggested. I realy don't want to make him feel inadaquate at all. Trying to figure out what's right and what's not working is hard work. I did send him a little dirty email tonight. Said i was thinking ABOUT him. It was short and sweet. I thought maybe something in the email that was light and not about R or feelings would be a nice change.
As long as there is no OW, I'm happy to work on the bedroom stuff.
Me:32 H: 34 T: 12 YEARS M: ALMOST 5 S: 8 D: 4 S: 14 (OTHER R) SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it) NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants) MOVED HOME 12/01/08 I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans