is he too young for MLC?

[Dom R]

And no I do not belittle him when it happens. I just cuddle with him or ask if he is up for another round. Am I doing something wrong again?

You might just stick to cuddling, and expressing that you are happy to be intimate with him. asking for "another round" puts pressure on him. I'm guessing your intention was to show you are still "interested" in him. However, it has the additional effect of putting pressure on him also.

SO... dont ask for "another" from him, and he will probably feel better about it.

Although... if you're feeling frisky.. you MIGHT try asking him to do "other things" for you, and demonstrate that you feel just as happy with him doing that for you at that point in time.

Only do that, if you really are just as happy, though. Dont try to pretend, if you arent happy with it, 'cause he'll probably figure out the truth.

yawn.. i really should go to sleep. haha.

oh, PS:
you might also work on making sure that you get more "satisfaction", via his efforts, before the "main event".
If he can learn enough about what you like, to give you a few "happy events", to start with... he'll probably feel a lot better about himself, and he wont feel like a failure. Particularly if you stop pressuring him for mr. willie.

This type of approach is all up to YOU. It's up to you, to first ask him for "selfish attention" for yourself... and it is then up to you to help him learn what you like.. and also to have the patience while he learns... and patience to teach him... AND the openness within yourself, to relax enough to allow it to actually work for you

good luck, and happy exploring!