its tough to post late at night when there arent many people reading.
you havent really said much, beyond initial surface up-front aggro between you two.
how about you post more details of your past,.. what you both used to be like when you first met, for example... and see what people can suggest? was he always this low drive?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle