I agree with FA and Atlas, she is trying to get you into an argument with her to validate she's making the right decision because all the two of you do is argue. She's trying all she can to get you to do that. Don't give it to her. As for as the flowers, I went that route with my W. They made her feel guilty, she was doing what she was and I still loved her. It is pursuing, need to stop.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26