Just keep going slow and keep it comfortable. A good friendship takes time to build (or rebuild). And don't worry about the next steps and if she can make it. If she can't it's not meant to happen. She should only make those steps when she's fully ready to. Try to be patient and think in terms of baby steps. Try to enjoy just being friends, learning to not have expectations and just appreciating small things.
You are doing great. Keep working on you....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
