WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..

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Tell me again why I shouldn't ask W who this guy is I know she's been calling, went to his house but told me she was visiting her girfriend (which I had suspicions about but never confronted her about it). I got the phone bill today and W has been calling his # frequently and deleting every single call from her cellphone history. This is an A of some kind 4 sure.

The mapquest of his address is still sitting in front seat of her car from last week, all one has to do is look it up on the internet. His name is on her work schedule. She NEVER mentioned this guy's name in conversation with me before. The calls started a few weeks ago, right after her 'pre-thanksgiving dinner/bar night out with co-workers (which I though may be a secret date but never confronted her about it). He's in her contact list under a female's name.

Why shouldn't I expose the fact that I know something, ask her what's going on? She's the one that said she wasn't going to date for awhile, only planned on it after several months. That's what other websites are suggesting I do. I don't want to accuse her of anything, I just want to hear what she says about it, I'm having a hard time not asking her. I know for a fact now that this guy is not her friend's boyfriend. I learned that from conversation with W (guy is co-worker vs. friend's boyfriend works for fire dept).