Alright I think I'm being DB'ed in some way. She admits to starting to read relationship books.
W shows up tonight to pick up S. Comes in on her own since S and I are in the back, walk out and she is there. Feel pretty good that she feels welcome enought to walk in.
After she greets S she asks to smoke (BTW, how did I get back on this habit, I hate it!), she is doing everything to keep S inside, saying Mommy and Daddy have to talk. We get out there and she wants to talk, I haven't heard from her ever saying that.
So W states, she has been thinking about MC, and she wants to do it, just not yet. Says she isn't ready to face what she has done. Also, says she thinks we should get the D, and then she says but I would like to try and "live in sin" when the time is right. I just roll with it.
She comes back in and sits for a few, S again doesn't want to go to her house, he is really attached to me right now, but easy to understand. I'm not depressed and we play a lot, while she is pretty down and usually lays on her couch and he runs crazy.
Then she says she needs my help with the car seat, I got out and fix it, the whole time she is sitting in the car talking with me. She has made a really good friend, she is D'ing as well, has kids. W has never had good choices in GF's so for once she says it is really good, since this girl isn't an idiot. Tells me her friends stories about her D all the time and what she should do. Her friend wants to save her marriage, but evertime she tries H gets so irrate he punches the walls and ends up arrested. I don't the know them so not really sure what to say.
But I think W needs some girl time, seems to help. But she is down. She also asked to do X-mas shopping together now, we are sledding Sunday, this is all at her request. So I figure I just keep taking the baby steps and see what happens.
Oh, also, W can't deal with her attorney, she is totally scared of the guy and he won't quit calling after she called and said he is fired. So she asked if I would write the letter to him for her. So tonight I got the letter together to fire him and emailed it to her. She is even afraid to give it to his secretary. Gives the whole damn profession a bad name.
So things seem to be going well, hugs and I do a few pecks on the head, I'm 6'2" and she is much shorter. Had to through that out there. But I can see when we just sit on the couch she is very tense. Have to keep working on that.
