Mo:

ENJOY yourself. Fantasize. LET HIM do his thing. If you get miffed, say so. You are very capable of standing up for yourself and putting him in his place if need be. Until then, BUNKY it up. I think the best R to be in... is when you feel free to be yourself, you feel free to be honest, you feel free NOT to miss someone, you feel free to enjoy someone's company, you feel free to be annoyed, you feel free to enjoy time on your own, that much needed break, you feel free to be your monetary, not quite divorced, got to get my [censored] together business/mom woman... you FEEL FREE.

BTW, you aren't D yet... right? Or are you? Status?

Til then... screw long term thoughts... jeese.