LOL...fair enough, wishing. It does sound a lot better explained.
But I do have to say that it is great that you all get along. What a help it is for everyone involved. My ex's new guy (who for a number of years was OM) and I get along. I mean there is history there, but what are you going to do. (I do have to admit that it was kind of fun knowing he was scared $Hitless of me for a while.) Holding the grudge does no one any good. And hey, my life is better today than it was before.
Good luck. And when your guy dumps you give me a call. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!