CW called me at 8:20 this morning. I was up.....barely. (Dirty beer glass again last night). She want to know if I had thrown away S6's booster seaat for my truck. I asked her why and she was wondering if she should throw away the one she has. She hasn't used it in months, but she needed to ask me if she should throw it away????? She is getting more nuts.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
You may need to set some boudaries with CW. She seems to want to have the fun daily talks friends or even spouses do - but this is not how it will be and she really does not get this...
She does not get the pain it puts you through each and everytime you have to interact with her and I don't think she being malicious about this - she just does not have a clue - she assumes if she is happy you will be happy for her (aka with her)...
Maybe she needs to hear your point of view and how this is affecting you!!
Take care!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
I thought telling her I would be friendly with her for the kids sake and couldn't/wouldn't be her friend was pretty clear. She is all sweetness around me or on the phone.
Oddly, it isn't as painful as you would think, because I am not allowing it to be. I may get a little sad when I think about the whole sitch, but I am done with her and her games. I am 95% sure that she has gone beyond the point of no return with me. Even if she wants to, I doubt I could go back with her.....
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
I don't care why she is being nice. She is a lying cheating remorseless so and so.
She called tonight about some kid stuff and for the first time, I can honestly say I couldn't have cared less about her and what she was saying. She is going to take some of the Christmas stuff for her place. I could care less what she takes. Most of the decorations are reminders of our past. She has a collection of santas that I have been giving her for years and crazily, she wants them.......
If I could get this D over today and have it final......I would.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
I am not down, believe it or not. I am actually at peace with what is going on. I am not exactly looking forward to the holidays, but then again, a new day is in the offing...
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
mcojh, maybe your CW should meet my H. They sound perfect for each other. Let us all be "best friends" !!!! lol grid, losy
-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)
