Out of the mouths of babes.....

[peacetoday]

W8ing
sounds like your H is giving you some practice at not reacting
that is good
I remember when my sitch started, i so wanted to practice this new behavior
now I have for many months..I like the new me
less control..way less
letting go more everyday
it is so freeing to let other people make their choices and pay their consequences
you are really doing well in my opinion and you are strong
peace