The End or Just a Begining?

[Atlas]

Well I found out W wasn't BS'ing me. Her attorney is a real piece of work. I think I'll have to have my attorney give him a little phone call today.

At the drop off this morning W asked me in, she said things were tough at work right now, and told me about some bad issues she was dealing with. So she's back to confiding in me. She has no computer, so I told her if she would like she can come by at night and use the office and I'll play with S. She said thanks. She then asked if I wanted to go sleding or do something as a family this Sunday. Now she is initiating contact, so overall I feel good about things, but keeping my distance.

I agree on the D, it has to be done. I think we have wrecked so badly, that rebuilding isn't possible. In my little metaphor a bulldozer is going to have to finish it off, and then we can rebuild a bigger better place.

[Heimlich]

Funny. If memory serves, I think you were saying back in July that you'd have to get a D before you could really start over.

Really, lots of positives from your W.

BD

[dh4320]

Atlas,
maybe you can look at my thread and give me some insight...

new marriage, new WAW

Dhump4320

[Atlas]

So W had me in again this morning at the drop. Stayed for about 10 minutes, pretty light chit chat, but also had to talk about some of our D procedures. Her attorney is making it as hard as he can for her to fire him. I also told her about the fee dispute arbitration with the state bar.

Then I heard nothing all day. Well pretty surprised that right when her work ends tonight she calls. She has not called me in months. She used the excuse to talk to S before bedtime. Well we end up having a good convo for about 20 minutes. She is really stressed out and I think worried about the pending D. Work is piling up and I know this whole D stresses her out, told her she could come to the house and use my office if she needed it. She doesn't have a computer available. She said thanks and that she probably would.

[NDDT]

Hey Atlas glad to see you are still alive. I am still here.....got alot going on.......writers block is one of them. But glad to see ya. I think one of these days I am just gonna put my phone number out here, and anyone wants to talk can just call me!!

G

[Atlas]

Hey NDDT! Good to hear from ya.

More positive interactions from W. Drop this morning went well, then she called my phone to see how my work day was going. Hmmm.

[PMA_Baby!]

that's awesome bud. Keep it up. She might b wavering a little. Maybe u gave her the time she needed to figure stuff out. hmmmmmm???

B

[NDDT]

Atlas,

Had to get this story down before I forget it.....

Just gonna settle down to watch the game and eat some chili. phone rings. it is stbx. yeah, I am still headed straight towards the divorce...(i could write chapters on that) anyways.
"The cats caught a critter, ummm could you come and get it?"
Well, where are you?
"Hiding in my bedroom with the kid"
LOL, so what they catch?
"At first, I thought he had a mouse, but I think it is a bat!"
OK....I'll be there as soon as I get dressed.

Now, a mouse dont bother me, I have picked em up by there tail and watched them try to run.

But.....well.......bats kinda freak me out. So I go to the garage, gonna get in my car. And think,......better arm myself. Grab an empty pizza hut box. Channel lock pliers. And welder gloves. Put on safety glasses on too, you betcha.

I arrive in full battle dress at her place 3 minutes later, (its only 4 blocks)

Knock on back door. No answer. I go in. Hello......Hello. Its by the christmas tree. Both cats got it pinned. Ok, I almosted pooped myself when I saw it. 1 cat holding each wing. Now think, of the movie "Wizard of Oz" know them flying monkeys? well it looked like one of them only about 1/3 of its size.
I yelled HOLY SH%#!!!!
"Hey watch your mouth! I got the kid in here"
Well Did You See This SONOFAB@&H?
she shuts the door

So I open pizza box. Yell scat at the cats. Thing starts moving. I dropped the pizza box open towards me onto of it. Box is moving this thing is squaking cats are creeping back. What to do? What to do? I started smacking the box with the wrench. its squacking louder pushing on the box my sphincster is tightening.
I think I connected with it, it gets quieter. I scat the cats again. slide the box down to look at it. I see the head, thing has fangs looks dead. I lean in to look a little closer.

I am like 1 foot away looking. it rears up at me and SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEK. (was like a freaking horror movie when ya think the monster is finally dead) I think I pee'd myself a little at this point. I labled it right in the head with the wrench, and dropped it the box. She comes out and we double bag the box in trash bags. We talked for a few minutes.

So I guess I am still good enough to call if she needs some killing done. You know, I think for all that trouble she should have ......... yeah, right!!

I gotta go I am hungry!

G

[Heimlich]

RTOFL! Holy Shyte, I almost spewed water all over my laptop.

Dude, NDDT, where you been, man?

BD

[Atlas]

WOW,

OMG! Have you thought about a comedy coloumn for the local paper. That is some of the funniest shi t I have read in while. When you arm up and dress up, LOLOLOLOL!!! Ha, ouch that is so good.

NDDT, you da man!