Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Michael Mc C]

One thing that is for sure. I have already "put my foot" down as far as not wanting to share the home with her after she meets him. I will have to assume that things got physical when that happens, all signs indicate this, even what she has told friends.

If the house was bigger, or at least configured better, it might be a possibility.

She may actually surprise me, although with the way her mind has been working, I can't say for sure. After the OM faded away, she threatened to leave 3 or 4 times, for no particular reason. She did it again shortly after the OM came back around. But she never left.

Finally, this past week, she was "packing her things" for a couple of hours preparing for the move. I sent her an email basically reconfirming the fact that she will in fact be moving if she leaves. It was then that she decided to postpone. It turns out nothing was packed. I guess she was trying to call my bluff.

I'm not sure if she postponed because I was right about the kids (and I was) or if she has this fear of leaving the kids. I can't really tell with her.

It will be interesting to watch. She is pretty confident that this guy is the man of her dreams. I think that once the day comes for them to meet she won't have too many problems actually moving.