Can't do that just yet because you first need the humility which comes from being broken. There you find out who you are & what His Will is for you and your family - AND WHY. Then you're not just reading it in the Bible and hoping it applies to you. There you will learn and then you will know that you know that you know.
There you gain the strength to stand.
It's called the valley.
And mostly you will just need the strength to shut up. Trust me on that one.
