I hope nobody is angry with me but I needed to show some unbiased opinions to my W with this thread. Consequently I reversed the roles here. It was me who found out about the secret checking account that was opened with the address being sent to a friend. I tried to portray her motives as she explained them to me as dispassionately and as unbiased as possible in order not to taint the replies. If I had laid it out straight and gotten the replies I did she would have said that you all were taking up for me because you "know" me.
So Hairdog, I have no "divorce fantasies". I don't know if I can say the same about my W...
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.