Hi Blindsided1, I've been reading your story and I can't remember if you had said if you had read the Divorce Remedy yet. If you have try this. it is helping me. I am going through the book and writing down all the things I need to do. For example 1. Stop telling him ILY. 2. Be happy when I talk to him
When the list is done I print it out (or write it) ande I put it on the mirror in my bathroom on the fridge by my bed as a screen saver. Where ever I know I have to look at it and remind myself these are the things I have to do. You don't always have time to re-read the book but you do have time to read a list.
Sometimes a quick reminder can help. I wish you all the best with this. I do know the pain you feel and I am terrible for putting extra stuff on my H.
Anyways, i just thought I would let you know what I was doing to try to prevent the needy, moody me. Maybe it will help you.
Me:32 H: 34 T: 12 YEARS M: ALMOST 5 S: 8 D: 4 S: 14 (OTHER R) SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it) NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants) MOVED HOME 12/01/08 I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans