Hi Blindsided1, I've been reading your story and I can't remember if you had said if you had read the Divorce Remedy yet. If you have try this. it is helping me. I am going through the book and writing down all the things I need to do. For example
1. Stop telling him ILY.
2. Be happy when I talk to him

When the list is done I print it out (or write it) ande I put it on the mirror in my bathroom on the fridge by my bed as a screen saver. Where ever I know I have to look at it and remind myself these are the things I have to do. You don't always have time to re-read the book but you do have time to read a list.

Sometimes a quick reminder can help. I wish you all the best with this. I do know the pain you feel and I am terrible for putting extra stuff on my H.

Anyways, i just thought I would let you know what I was doing to try to prevent the needy, moody me. Maybe it will help you.


Me:32
H: 34
T: 12 YEARS
M: ALMOST 5
S: 8
D: 4
S: 14 (OTHER R)
SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it)
NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants)
MOVED HOME 12/01/08
I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans