I know exactly how you feel!!! My XH is trying to reconnect with our youngest son. S21 is accepting his invitations to golf or bowl with his father. When I ask XH for a "contribution" to S21's college tuition, XH states "that's not his cross to bear!!" I know he could give a darn about me!! His priority is himself and his new wife. He had no trouble abondoning his family, having an affair and abdicating all his responsiblity to me! I too have been to a counselor to help deal with the anger. The one thing I have figured out is, my anger does not hurt him at all, only me. I have been reading alot of Joel Osteen's books to help give me a PMA.
