but he has lost his attractiveness to me in many ways.
And do you wonder if you will ever be attracted to him again? And I mean from a personality point of view.... I notice other couples more and more, and how the H's treat their wives. My H wasn't mean, but he did ignore me.
Do you really think that he wants custody? I'm not sure that they want to give up their freedom?
Can I inject some bad humor here? I think you need to get him a Christmas present from D2.....A bunch of toilet paper and paper towels. I still don't get this.....
You sound like you are doing pretty good. Remember...zero expectations!