Can anyone help me out with something.

I would like to follow a few threads on the MLC but am a little overwhelmed with how long many of them are. I am a little pressed for time (what with the newborn & 2 yr old!) and would like to know if anyone can recommend any particular threads that might be helpful for me in my sitch.

I have JUST come to the point where I am ready to accept the fact that this is going to be a LONG LONG road for me. My H is pursuing living with OW and I must proceed to a lawyer ASAP for protection purposes both financially and for custody.
I'm especially looking for a story to inspire me to keep the hope alive!!

Thanks!
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out