(((((((((Laughing))))))))) Thank you for your kind words, You always kept a level head when it came to posting and you always had a soft way about you, I understand what you mean when you talk about the Holidays coming.. and it just seems like the x just can't let go of you, he needs you to know he is still around... it is hard for him to take responsibilities for his actions for he still is in crisis and needs to put the blame on everyone else but himself..
as far as the Husband and I we are still a couple just not living in the same house, we do not share a bed but we share everything else and that is fine with me, he is still in my life and still is a friend and I no longer have to do his laundry LOL LOL see i still can find ways to laugh about it.
It works for us because with both agreed being friends Best friends as he put it was the way to go, why fight?? why be angry?? it is only going to cause pain for both of us and our children, We talk everyday on the phone sometimes 4 to 5 times, I see him once a week or more, he sees our son about 4 times a week and does things with him, I picked out his new home for him and even helped decorate it, my new man has a lawn service so he goes to my husbands house and does he lawn, my husband comes to my house to do repairs, we work together and it does work for us..
My Husband has a girlfriend funny thing is he does not talk much about her around me but now and then I ask how things are going and he told me she wants him to get divorced but he has told her the same thing divorce is not in his future, down the road who knows what will happen but for now we can co-parent together, work together and be friends.. so yes life is better then it was 4 years ago...
Now you take care and keep in touch.. Hugs Wishing
