And I'm sure you know the answer as to whether or not this guy is long-term material for you. Right?
I've been thinking about this. When I'm not around GP, my thoughts are that objectively we do not make a good match. Emotionally, I am exceedingly fond of him but not "in love". However, when I am around him, even just talking on the phone, I always enjoy myself and he pretty firmly psychologically renders me "barefoot and pregnant" So,it's like I feel as though he will have me if he wants me and if he doesn't I'll just wander off unscathed. The funny thing is this is true even though I would say that I am the more HD of the two of us, although he might be the more strong drive. Quite a few of our sexual encounters are sort of like a comedy routine where a monkey-girl teases a man in a panther suit and then is shocked/surprised when she realizes it is a real panther.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
