Not that she is important because she is NOT!! but here we go... OW is a fascination to him. He's got it good now, yeah, but how long do you really think that will last. How long do you think she'll put up with him being a freeloader and how long do you think the fascination will last. remember what you said about his hobbies in the past. he completely drops something that he had to have for something new, on a whim.
He's flaky and inconsistant. Is that really what you want for you right now? I should hope not. You need love, support and stability and shouldn't settle for anything less.
just remember, when he has his space, he'll think about you. What have you been doing, how have you changed. You can be his new fascination... the thing is, you have the home and memories on your side as well. I know that my H buys every new video game as they come out and sells off the old systems. For sure, if he could find one that did everything he wanted (your changes), was new and shiny (new fascination from being missed) and also remembered all his favorite games (memories and life together)... that would be the one he'd stick with!
patience and more patience...
how's that baby doing? not too much longer til you find out what it is right? I have 4 weeks til my US to find out!
take care and focus on you and baby... ann
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
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