you are torturing yourself. are you masochistic? j/k but really, don't do that to yourself. You have to be happy to be you. He is obviously trying to be happy being him.
You only feel like you have to know what he's doing at all times because you don't have any idea, any control or any say in the matter.
i'm borrowing this from dh4320's thread, i'm sure he won't mind me sharing...
Originally Posted By: dh4320
The other thing my c told me is to stop obsessing. He said when you can stop obsessing on what the W is doing then you can be free to work on yourself. He says when you obsess your mind starts racing and all the negatives you are thinking your S is doing you will start to believe it and it makes you sick.
obsessing will only end up hurting you. be patient and DB like crazy. you can do it!
ann
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ann
