WAW does not want to try

[wawpioneer]

Update from a few minutes ago. She is on her way into town from C. She sounded as if she was in a good mood. She is getting some clothes and the dog and is planning on staying the night again tonight. Actually, she is planning on moving back in. Not sure when exactly but not important right now.

Ann and Dom, I really appreciate the conversation that you two had in this forum. We were asking each other last night what "an effort" looked like to each of us and we could not define it. I think your conversation says loads though. It may not be important to define it but to simply understand it. I can see that a lot of patience will be involved based on Ann's posts and that I could easily become impatient based on Dom's post. I will keep that in mind as we move forward and let her pace the relationship. After all, God made women so that they would have an internel guage of how the R is going and I just need to be patient enough so that I can read the guage carefully in order to see progress. Small steps and small goals. Right now we discussed in C to plan on trying to build our R up with a lot of small positive moments. Sounds like a lot of fun to me! I love a good challenge. My W certainly falls in that category!