Pregnant and abandoned #3

[blindsided1]

Thanks Ann. I need that. I know there are a lot of issues that were making him unhappy. He told me. I was really bitchy. We lived with my parents. He told me today that he felt like a dog with its tail between its legs during our marriage. Do you know how much that hurts to know that I made him feel like that? We talked a little about the things I needed from him, too. Like not being treated like I was a piece of meat. He said that he hated that. I hated the fact that he didn't woo me, at all. He just groped at me, in my eyes. There are a lot of issues and now I feel like there is no way to show him that those issues could have been dealt with if he had only told me, instead of bailing out and quitting us. I told him that I was angry that he didn't even give us a chance and he told me that he didn't think there was anything there to give a chance too. What about our child? What about our marriage? What if I had only known what was going on in his head. I will try harder, but it hurts not to have any hope. How do you show him that those things are gone and new and better things are just on the horizon. He doesn't believe me when I say it. And, now that he is with OW, there is no way for me to show it.