I think the key to surviving the outrageous things I did to my family is to be myself and have a load of humility. yes we survived my atrocities but i am not here to brag and to give advice. I did read his thread. it doesnt sound like what I went through, more like a cake-eater who got to have his piece of arse and then some. sounds like a man who needed more then his ego rubbed and then realized oh [censored] I made a big mistake I better go back and say I am sorry. and if i post about it i can also be a hero. he wins either way.
cinders even my absolutely perfect wife has a spinning moment and she has just cause. i think that it take a long time a friggin hell o f a long time to earn back trust. it is not a right but rather a reward. that is why I am so irked by you know who.
just to clarify, i meant that Ali has every right not to trust me. i totally trust her but she is trusting me more and more nowadays.i have had to prove myself to her. and yes I have her permission to post again exspecially after she also read that thread.
I haven't been running a thread. I started one in Summer and occasionally post there, but rarely. I broke my foot in May and had an interesting Summer--surgery and 3 months of crutches!
I'll start a thread when I have a topic to address for the posters--not for my situation. I'm working on writing about Self Identity right now.
