I think the key to surviving the outrageous things I did to my family is to be myself and have a load of humility. yes we survived my atrocities but i am not here to brag and to give advice. I did read his thread. it doesnt sound like what I went through, more like a cake-eater who got to have his piece of arse and then some. sounds like a man who needed more then his ego rubbed and then realized oh [censored] I made a big mistake I better go back and say I am sorry. and if i post about it i can also be a hero. he wins either way.