But my guess is you really don't want to "pretend" in your R for very long.
The weird thing is that although I think SG was about right when she estimated me at being only about 15% bunny, I probably act about 50% bunny around GP but I'm not "pretending". There is something about his manner that places me firmly in the bunny role. He is just so much more assertively "old school" masculine than most guys I've been with. For instance, once when we were at the casino he said to me "Walk beside me, not behind me so it is clear that you are with me." like he couldn't properly be my bodyguard if I wasn't in his line of sight. Also, the way that he offers his over-the-top-validation it is less like he is trying to gain my favor and more like he is trying to make me blush. Also, he is 6'5" and pretty darn muscular and tough looking. I'm less monkey than normal around him, not because I'm not attracted to him but because my monkey gets a little daunted.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
