He totally exhausts me. The fight did get so bad that I told him we should seperate because I just couldn't take the constant issues he has with me. He then calmed down and said he wants to be with me and just wants to be wanted..
I don't know what to do. I've been more attentive to him the last day or so, I'm going to try and be more aware of it.. what more can I do?? everybody wants mommy to give them attention.. and im getting burned out.
Hey girl, I just read this post and please take this in the way that I mean it, but make sure you mean stuff like that when you say it as far as the separating thing goes.
I felt the same way for years about everyone needing mommy to do everything, however, I sure wasn't ready for the D bomb when I got it. Let's face it, that's what mommies are for, whether we work or not, we are mom, wife, lover, friend, worker, etc., etc. Yeah, it sucks, but that's kind of the way it is. Yes, it's tiring, but think long & hard about what it would truly be like w/o your H and make sure that that is really ok w/ you before you go too far down the road of "maybe wanting a separation" or whatever.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
