sounds good to me. i don't think i'm any good at DBing, but you are giving her an option and being understanding without being a pushover. You have plans, you keep them. Good! it seems as though she may not want to see you and you give her a way not to, but if she wants to, she could be the one to bring out your S. i think that's good all around.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
