Back at DB/new marriage new WAW

[dh4320]

thanks Anne,

I called our sitter who said the W was visiting with the kids. I told her i was coming by to get my son(2 1/2) to go pick up a tree and asked her if she could keep the baby until we get back. SHe said yes but talked to the W and asked if i get wait 30 minutes longer so W could spend more time with kids. I said no i have to stay to a schedule and that she can stay with the baby while S and i are out getting the tree. I told the sitter if the W does not want to see me i will call when i am in the driveway and the sitter can bring the S out. I know i am giving her a chance to not see me, but i am also trying to work with her at the same time is this dbing or not dbing its kinda gray to me ...