So H had no problem w/ you going out w/ this OG all the time and it turned into an A? Well, I have to tell you that if others knew that you 2 were intimate, your H will find out sooner or later and it would probably be better if he finds out from you rather than from someone else -- including OM if he decides he's upset/mad enough about it. He may not think he's mad that you are "breaking up" w/ him right now, but you don't know what is going to happen from here on out.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10