Oh.. just one more (depressing, sorry) thought. You might also want to ask a L what happens if you guys both sign and agree to something and he "changes his mind" - as in, stops paying whatever you agreed to. If it's not a legal doc, does it have any weight??

I'd worry just because I feel like he's going to get angry and try to pull something very unfair.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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