Sandi, I see some things somewhat in common in your M and mine.

According to most folks, I have too much stuff too. I am not a neat/tidy guy. BB has some medical issues and is tired a lot.

I pay bills on time. I don't hang around the house in my underware but BB is in her PJ's by 7PM and till 10 AM the next day.

I guess I better read your thread closely.

Lou